At first stbx and I had agreed on how to split things until, as you know, my in-laws intruded and took over our divorce. I have wanted to be fair all along but as I look more and more at how I was treated I want justice if only to have a judge look at my stbx and say he had no right to do what he did.
I do have a bit of proof on the abuse I went through. I don't know if it would be enough. Can he go to jail for accusations I make in divorce court? Honestly I would really like to see him pay a bit even if it doesn't make up for the fear and pain he put me through. Not to mention the fact he might try to hurt me again.
i am sorry to say probably not. it will be hearsay. did you call the police or go to the doctor after any of the incidents? i would guess not...i know being afraid no one would believe you, being afraid it was 'your fault', not knowing what would happen to you if they DID believe you, and being afraid of the retaliation. so...you most likely have no 'evidence'. do you have reliable witnesses? again...probably not. who is mean to their spouse where everyone can see...not most!
so...on this one, cut your losses and be glad your free.
life is NOT fair. im sorry!
maybe others have a different opinion and advice. best to you.
Why do you think he would try to hurt you again? Has he threatened you? If so, were any of the threats on voicemail or in writing? If so, you have a strong case for getting a permanent restraining DV restraining order against him.
And if he assaults you, press charges along with getting the DV restraining order.