Divorce Support Forums: Visitation Agreement Not Working So What Do I Do?

In Oct. 2007 my ex verbally agreed to let me move 1 1/2 hours away. Originally we had a divorce agreement, no lawyers. We agreed upon a new visitation schedule. Our arrangement is that I drop them off to him on Friday's during the day and he meet me half way Sunday nights at a specific time to drop them off. Well my kids will be in a new school next year and cannot be dropped off during the day on Friday's anymore so that will have to change but the problem I am having is that he is always late to drop them off on Sunday's. I have asked him numerous times to be on time but he is still anywhere from 30 min. to 1 1/2 hrs late to drop them off (and my kids have school the next morning!). Am I well within my rights to tell him that when he wants them he is to pick them up and when I want them I will pick them up? Meaning that on Friday's when it is his weekend he will drive here to get them and when it is Sunday and I am to have them come back to me I will drive to his house and pick them up. I dont know what else to do as this has been going on since before I ever moved. I dont know where the law would stand on this if it went to court. Any advice would be really helpful!! Thanks!

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