My husband and I have been experiencing harrassment from his ex-wife for almost 3 years since the day we met. They had been divorced a year with 2 children when we met. We married this year and his ex got married to a man she knew for 3 months exactly 2 weeks after our wedding day. After every visitation she comes up with some horrible accuasation. We are on lawyer #3 and have already had to take her to court for contempt but court really just slapped her on the wrist and all it did was end up costing a fortune. The lawyers we have had will never call back and don't seem to have any answers. The latest is that over Thanksgiving weekend she has accused my 7yo neice of showing the children who are 6 and 8 a video of "naked men in the rainforest". I was there with 6 other adults while the children were looking at a rainforest website for children and everyone in the educational video was clothed. We are at the end of our rope. The youngest child lies constantly and is learning to manipulate the situation and the oldest is very defiant and tells us he doesn't have to do what we say because Mommy says he doesn't have to. Is there any help out there for these situations? Social workers? Anyone? We asked the court to put them in therapy but once the judge dropped the temp order the ex stopped sending them and our lawyer says there is nothing else that can be done. Any help or advice would be most welcome. We love these children and want the best for them and this situation is getting worse and worse and she is elevating her hatred to new levels.