Divorce Support Forums: Ex husband a gold digger

Is there anyone I can talk to about my ex gold diggen husband around? I have been divorced from this control freak since 1998, when he left me, but unfortunatly I let him live with me again in 2000! Big mistake. The I left him in 2003. Now he says he never new we were divorced! He is such a lier, he now is sueing me to re open the divorce case on grounds it was obtained fraudulently. I have had a restraining order on him for over 1 year and then yesturday he put one on me? He is ignorant, can not due that....or maybe you can, plus it was obtained fraudulenty, he lied so bad in the TRO I am the one afraid of him. Anyway I have so much more to talk about and it is so complicated I hope someone in Hawaii or anywhere for that matter replys to me.