Divorce Support Forums: New Here, Need Advise

Hello all,

I just joined this forum and am looking for some advise.

In late September my soon to be ex and I finally went to a judicial hearing regarding child support, spousal support, and custody/ visitation.

I was awarded temporary legal custody of my children ( 13 and 16 ) and we agreed to every other weekend for husband for visitation. I was also awarded child and spousal support.

Here are my issue:

When I agreed to visitation it was because husband had told the judge he would get an apartment for the kids. He is living in a converted garage room in my brother in laws home with BIL's four kids. I feel husband lied to the judge to get visitation because now he is NOT getting an apartment and moving my son into his garage room with him and my daughter into my neices room ( which when I talked with both kids about the visitation's the first thing she said to me was she did not want to bunk with her cousin, she felt uncomfortable with her and wanted her privacy ). I talked with husband about this and he said he would make the decisions for where the kids lived while he had them. I am pretty upset about this and don't think he is being sensitive to her needs. Also his visitation time should be one on one with his kids and not his entire family.

The other issue is that husband was supposed to have the agreement drafted by his attorney and submitted to the courts for my approval by October 1st. It is now October 5th and the paperwork is not complete nor is child support which was to be paid bi monthly is not paid. He did pay spousal support on the 1st.

I would appreciate any thoughts and advise. My attorney knows about all of this and is only asking me to document at this point but with husband ignoring mostly all of the court details I feel more should and could be done.

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