I am new to the forum, but here is my story. I have will be married for 5 yrs May 27. I have been separated from my husband since oct 2005. we separated because he was having an affair the a co-worker. I found out he moved out filed for divorce In Nov. I was served with papers I told the husband of the women my husband was having the affair with what was going on (yes she was married to a minister) she then ended the affair with my husband and found another job. After the affair ended my husband to me he wanted to work the marriage out we began to talk again and even discussed counseling. January 2006 he says no divorce we are working the marriage out and he is moving back home only he has a 1 yr lease now that he needs to get out of. Things are going well with use still non counseling. But we are doing things together and speanding lots of time together March 22 divorce would be final but we have not done any more paper work. End of March I find out my husband has been having another affair with a married women at our church since December. Now he does not want the marriage says he feels nothing when he is around me and this women (who still lives with her husband makes him happy.) So why didnt he just go thru with the divorce. We have no children together no property nd he does not provide any support to me at all. He did purchase a suv during the marriage and I believed he has financed a chrysler 300 for his mother. I make more money than he does. Where is this going to lead me? can this be considered abandoment? please help!!! We live in a community property state
It sounds like you are a strong, independent woman and you don't need to be jerked around like this. Take a stand, I know it is hard, and get on with your own life. You will be fine, even better than before. You can do better than him, he does not deserve you.
You have nothing to worry about! The main thing you need to do is to GET OUT NOW! I know it will not be easy, but you must do it. He has already shown who he is. These issues will not get better, it is , who he is! You gave him his second chance, let him go! If you wait it will be worse when it happens a third time. As far as who gets what or who owes who..... you have nothing to worry about. He gets his suv and his mother gets her car. Is your name on either? Your were only married 5 years, dont worry about making more money then him! Talk to an attorney and make your fresh start! Good luck and hang in there!
Wow! Unreal. I don't know if you still check for replies to this but first of all to have an affair with women from the church....What kind of church are you going to? In my church both parties would most likely be asked to leave. From my past experience which was similiar once they cheat they will do it again. My ex had an affair with his co-worker and moved out only to move back in later saying he wanted to work it out but I caught him with her again. I filed for divorce and we just worked it out ourselves first with who would get what and pay for which things. He drug his feet so I filed for divorce and had him served. If you haven't done so already, I would file, according to the Bible you have the right.
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