I would like you opinion. I had an affair and my STBX thought it necassary to invole our kids, 20, 18 and 14. She believes this was the right thing to do. I don't believe that the kids should be involved with our personnal problems. She has convinced them that I cheated on them and lied to them during this period of time. They are very torn by all of this. What do you think of this.