new to all of this and not sure what to do! my oldest daughter is from my first marriage and they have just had twins and my oldest one feels left out and i'm not sure how to comfort her without making it sound like i hate her dad(which i do) but i don't want her to know that! how do i help her or comfort her with this cause i'm not sure how to make it easier on her when she has to go there and when i tried to talk to her dad about it he says there is no problem and he never want to talk about things like this so we can work on things to helpl with the things she needs help with. I hope this all make since.