Ruby8
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Reged: 11/20/08
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My husband has been having a affair for over a year and a half. They finally made it a sexual affair feb.14 and then he brought me balloons and a flower. I threw them out. He kept doing these imoral things and kept telling me to leave the house. I wouldnt so one night he didnt get in till 1:30 am. I ask where he had been we were laying in bed. He started saying hurtful things and I put my arm over his head and he shoved me I hit the tv stand with my head and fell to the floor and got all bruised up. He went out of the room and called 911 and said I attacked him. They took me to jail for 4 days. I was devistated. The next day he had his little [censored] in my house in my bed. She acted like it was her house. I dont know if I am stupid or what I have been with this man for 10 yrs. I wanted to try to make it work. He kept asking for more time. He said he had to end it his way. So I have let this drag on. I have been trying so hard everytime I turn around its something involving her. He put some of our stuff in her storage and says she wouldnt let him have it. No she will but its on her time and she knows nothing about us being back together. HELP!!!
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HELLDOG488
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Reged: 07/01/08
Posts: 989
Loc: Freakin freez'n oh
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The OW can put a crimp on things but you need to do what best for you and your future. Sounds to me like you need to get the hell out and move on with your life. Getting cheated on sucks and can make you feel pretty low, trust me i know all too well. But just ask yourself one question, Do you really want to be with someone who can treat you like this the rest of your life?????
Its too short as it is dont let somebody else mess with it like that.
Just my 2 cents.....
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I did my time and i want out.
Your born alone, you die alone the rest is yours to fill the gap...
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taryn
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Reged: 05/31/07
Posts: 2746
Loc: standing on the mountaintop! :...
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yeah.
you need to bite the bullet, grab whats left of your backbone and move ON!
the courts could care less if a person cheats,
but your poor heart/soul can only take so much.
for your own sake please start taking baby steps forward.
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taryn.
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Ruby8
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Reged: 11/20/08
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Thank you so much. I have believed for so long that he really wanted to make this work. Now I know it was just what he could get me to do for him. I give and give I am just gave out. I still hurt this is so hard. I dont know where to start. I am trying to find a job. I want to learn sterile processing.
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Nish
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Reged: 02/18/07
Posts: 1657
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Bump and Merry Christmas!
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Nish
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Reged: 02/18/07
Posts: 1657
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Change Please! Spamers, I place an evil curse on you!
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