My husband has been having a affair for over a year and a half. They finally made it a sexual affair feb.14 and then he brought me balloons and a flower. I threw them out. He kept doing these imoral things and kept telling me to leave the house. I wouldnt so one night he didnt get in till 1:30 am. I ask where he had been we were laying in bed. He started saying hurtful things and I put my arm over his head and he shoved me I hit the tv stand with my head and fell to the floor and got all bruised up. He went out of the room and called 911 and said I attacked him. They took me to jail for 4 days. I was devistated. The next day he had his little [censored] in my house in my bed. She acted like it was her house. I dont know if I am stupid or what I have been with this man for 10 yrs. I wanted to try to make it work. He kept asking for more time. He said he had to end it his way. So I have let this drag on. I have been trying so hard everytime I turn around its something involving her. He put some of our stuff in her storage and says she wouldnt let him have it. No she will but its on her time and she knows nothing about us being back together. HELP!!!