I have been married for 10yrs. Husband filed two years ago for divorce, we have since reconciled and that filing is non existent. I thought things were going to change, but they haven't. He does not have a great relationship with our children, he does not take a part in anything they do. We tried counseling after reconciling-but he thinks its a waste of time and doesn't work. (Meanwhile the children and I attend without him). He has shown zero love or affection toward me or the children. I'm thinking he reconciled just because of the financial strain. All our finances are separate. Checking accounts, Savings, cars-everything. I buy the children necessities that they need. He pays the mortgage. Here's my 1st question: I want to move out of the house with the children. (He said he would not leave our house we are in, and expressed he does not want to sell it) Will me leaving with the children cause me to lose any any of my rights such as alimony etc? I basically just want to be left alone, if he cannot provide me with a shred of love or respect. I see no sense in remaining in this marriage if he does not want to put forth any effort with the children,or with seeking anykind of help. Thanks
You moving out of the house will not hurt you. I moved out of mine, couldnt afford it after she filed with domestics so I had to sell it. If he stays in it you are entitled to have of the equity of the home...thats if your worried about finances. And no because you moved out will not hurt you on alimony. Hate to say it but PA is a womans state if you want his money or assets you can get them.Not saying thats what you want , just stating that you being the woman alone will help you financially. JUST ASK MY STBX!!! Haha
[quote]You moving out of the house will not hurt you. I moved out of mine, couldnt afford it after she filed with domestics so I had to sell it. If he stays in it you are entitled to have of the equity of the home...thats if your worried about finances. And no because you moved out will not hurt you on alimony. Hate to say it but PA is a womans state if you want his money or assets you can get them.Not saying thats what you want , just stating that you being the woman alone will help you financially. JUST ASK MY STBX!!! Haha [/quote]
That is very interesting..so is my wife hurting herself by staying with me during the divorce? her nearest support is 4 hours away and thats where she will be moving when this is all done. We havent settled on any timetable as i just told her last week we are splitting.
But sounds like according to your post she may be hurting herself by staying.
-------------------- call me WWIL...PA resident 39 year old , married 11 years, together 12...splitting in 13th year.
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