Divorce Support Forums: Divorce and moving out

I have been married for 10yrs. Husband filed two years ago for divorce, we have since reconciled and that filing is non existent. I thought things were going to change, but they haven't. He does not have a great relationship with our children, he does not take a part in anything they do. We tried counseling after reconciling-but he thinks its a waste of time and doesn't work. (Meanwhile the children and I attend without him). He has shown zero love or affection toward me or the children. I'm thinking he reconciled just because of the financial strain. All our finances are separate. Checking accounts, Savings, cars-everything. I buy the children necessities that they need. He pays the mortgage. Here's my 1st question: I want to move out of the house with the children. (He said he would not leave our house we are in, and expressed he does not want to sell it) Will me leaving with the children cause me to lose any any of my rights such as alimony etc? I basically just want to be left alone, if he cannot provide me with a shred of love or respect. I see no sense in remaining in this marriage if he does not want to put forth any effort with the children,or with seeking anykind of help.
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