Is it possible to fix this if I have gone through this for 7 years? I get confused a lot.. Cus if I give in.. I'm letting him abuse me. If I don't give in, I'm accused of trying to piss him off. Is the only way to fix it is by leaving? I mean.. sure it won't fix it, cus he might try, but atleast there would be less if I was away. It's beat me down and I want out.
I've been a sahm for 3 yrs and I'm trying to get a job so I can move out. He's a good guy. Just not to me.
I am just getting out of an abusive marriage myself. Physical but especially emotionally. He verbally emotionally beat me down to the brink of suicide. We were married 11 years. No one has the right to make anyone feel less than. Keep your chin up and know you are doing the right thing for you.