I haven't been able to post much lately because all the stories are all too familiar. I am the woman who stopped liking my husband. I am the woman that threw the D word around. I am the woman that was depressed and probably made my hubby feel like total crap. I am the woman that had a husband who turned toward another and found the love and all the good stuff that I should have been giving him.
Hind sight is 20/20. When my H told me he was leaving me for "perfect", I was completely crushed for someone that I didn't "want". I spent a couple of months in he11. I went to the counseling that I alway knew that I should have been going to, to get out of my depression, I started doing the things I should have been doing for myself and my boys.
Luckily, my H saw I was serious. Saw that thru all "that", it hadn't been all bad. Asked for another shot and I gave it to him. That was last June, we have made a lot of progress since then. We still have our set-backs, we work thru them.
I guess this post is to tell you you can get past all that, but it does take two. The first thing is to look into yourself. No marriage is perfect.
I dont know you, but I am incredibly proud of you! You are 100% correct, you can make it work, you can fix it, and it does start with yourself.
You must be so proud of yourself to be able to know the things you have done to make things better, to improve your marriage, to save your marriage.
Truly, you cannot sit and point your finger if you arent willing to look inside yourself. It does take two, but it only takes one to open the door. You opened the door Ang, and you invited your husband in.
Now that you have taken the lead to start healing, dont forget that there is a WE an US that needs healing also.
My utmost respect to you, i am truly very proud of you.
-------------------- You must be the change you wish to see - Mahatma Gandhi
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