Guys and gals, I don't have a whole lot of advice for many of you. I had gotten to the point that my husband pretty much disgusted me, he had gained some weight, never tried to have sex with me and he does/says some stupid stuff!!!
I had plastic surgery to try to make him find me sexy, Didn't help, it was in him. So I just ignored him, I stayed in my cave and he stayed in his till an ex gf looked him up and they hooked up. I was devasted, the man that I gave up on, didn't want me?
He eventually came to change his mind, he asked me to try again and I really did sit there and think about it. The stupid little things really get to me, the sex is a major issue, he is a bully. I could be released from all of that bs!!! BUT I turned around and hugged him, I haven't looked back since. He is a ding dong, but he is MY ding dong!
We still struggle, but I love him. A couple of random divorce issues have come up thru outside sources and my boys have both voiced that they are so glad that we are happily married (we never told them). Sometimes we start feeling really rocky, I just hug him hard. We are both trying, I know that a lot of you don't have that chance. Just try not to give into the I just can't do it anymore/I don't love him like that/I want something easier....whatever. I can't believe I wasted so many years not loving the man that I married because of my disinterest. I can't believe that he is still here.
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