Divorce Support Forums: I am so tired of fighting....

Hi,
I am new to this post and I found this site after another fight with my husband. We have been married for 4 years, together for 6. He works and I stay at home with our 15 month old son since we live about 25-30 miles from any good jobs and daycare is expensive. It actually makes no sense for me to work and I have explained this to him. While I am home I run a business and a website for it and I also resell on Ebay. I do all of this while taking care of our son and the daily duties in the house. I try my best to keep up with everything and no, the house is not always clean but I have to pick up after him and I get no help with anything, I have dinner on the table or close to it when he comes home but usually it is never good enough for him. I feel like I am constantly compared to his mom and her cooking. I really don't care to cook but I do it for him. He makes me feel like I can't do anything right and I don't have any sense. He belittles me because I don't go to work but I have proven to him that I can make more money from home and raise our child. We fight all of the time, there for a while it was every weekend. We also have issues with his parents telling us what we need to do and sticking their noses in our business. They always complain about not seeing their grandchild but they live maybe 10 miles away and they can't come see him. It is always up to us to go see them, especially on Sundays and then they get mad if we dare go and do something together as a family. He has no back bone to stand up to them. I have had several different problems with his mother. Basically its like he is blaming me for our problems and if I would just do to suit him then everything would be okay. I am so tired of fighting that I told him tonight that I am done, if he can not show me some respect and treat me like a person then I quit. I hate to because we do have a son and I think that I still love him but I just know that I can not live like this anymore fighting all of the time and then he expects me to change and do everything his way. Sorry to go on and on, it probably doesn't make any sense and I know there is more that we fight about, most of it really stupid. I think that he is trying to be controlling because his dad seems to be controlling...like father like son. Anyway thanks for letting me vent, I just don't know what to do.

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