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Needing some advise....
      #38551 - 10/26/06 07:47 PM (24.94.235.150)
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I am finally going to go thru with it and file for divorce. I have 3 young kids and am sure how to tell them or my spouse for that matter. I'm just not sure how he will take it. We've been thru the discussion before and I've given him many of chances. I'm tired and exhausted of life with him, and for the kids I can't keep putting them thru it. I just don't know how to bring it up. Any ideas???

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Re: Needing some advise.... [Re: kac]
      #38638 - 10/27/06 08:35 AM (207.67.108.200)
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I would suggest first of all you do it when the kids are not home. Secondly just calmly tell him that you are emotionally drained and exhausted, essentially just be honest. Tell him you can't continue the marriage and that you would like a divorce. Don't try to justify your decision by pointing out all the things that are his fault, keep it plain and simple. It may get emotional and heated but remain calm and don't get drawn into a fight. If you are worried about what he might do make sure you have someone near by for backup/protection.

Good luck and I am so sorry you have to go through this.
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