Jadas right... contact family and try to re-connect. You may be surprised and get some valuable advice and needed support.

You're in the right spot for support! You'll find alot of people with similar circumstances like yourself. You made the move by coming here. Think of this site as a place to vent your problems!

Do your homework now though! Get yourself educated on the divorce process. At the very least, head to the library and check out books on divorce (from dealing with the emotional difficulties to the financial planning). Doing this reading will keep you focused on what you need to do to take care of yourself and your kids.

Consult the right attorney and get that 30 minutes of free advice.

Just know everything you can about divorce. it could be tough road to travel.

Good luck.