Thanks everyone. Feels good to know there is someone to talk to that cares. I see a lot of caring hearts here. UPDATE: I DID IT! Anxiety was so bad thought I was having a heart attack, but I talked to him. It went much better than I was expecting. So far there hae been no arguments, but then it has only been 2 days. Gonna move out Oct 1, only because I need to get my van fixed first so I have semi reliable transportation.
Problem on the horizon: 8 yr old daughter (daddy's buddy) he thinks she should stay with him. I've told him no, but he wants a good reason why not. Thinkin I should wait until I actually have own place before I delve into that one.
Thank you so much everyone. You all helped me work up the courage to finally do something.

Sharon