I posted here before when I discovered that my husband had a secret second life with lots of women. I also discovered that he was looking for my gravesite in case something "suddenly" happened to me. I was in the process of leaving and had moved a lot of things out. He was furious and ended up pushing me down the stairs. He went to jail and I got an emergency protective order. We grabbed all of the business files and computers out of the house because I suspected a lot of incriminating things were there. The day after he was put in jail, someone broke into the house to get the files. They were too late.
I was floored with what I found. He was preparing to absolutely destroy me. He had manipulated our assets and was trying to make it look like I had made no financial contributions to our properties. He had manipulated my handicapped son's assets to try to get control and he was setting up e-mail accounts in my name. I have no idea what the e-mail accounts are for, but I am sure it wasn't something good.
The computer is going to some forensic computer specialists in Los Angeles to extract any searches and information to further establish his intention to harm me.

Meanwhile, he is ducking service for the permanent restraining order. If this restraining order expires, I am very afraid I will be harmed.I am also afraid he is still trying to damage me financially or in whatever way his twisted mind thinks.

I have tried to go into a shelter, but they will not take me because I have an adult handicapped son. My husband has also try to harm him. I stayed in motels and with friends, but when I was with friends, the neighbors came over to warn us that someone had been watching the house for some time. I left because I did not want to endanger them.

How can I protect myself?