Ok. There are things you need to do.

First - you need to put written instructions in place for the care of your son. Do a videotape outlining what you want and why so that he is not hurt if you are.

Second - if the court lapses the first, apply for another one with additional info on what is going on.

Third - sit down with the police and ask what your options are. I would think that being in your home, but hiring security would be preferable from a money standpoint.

Call the National hotline. Explain the situation and your problems locally and see what they say.