[quote]Ask the domestic violence shelters if they have advocates who can help even if you can't stay there, and get a safety plan. If they don't have advocates, call the sheriff, the police, the prosecutors & ask the same question. SOMEONE has an advocate who can help you. If not, call the national domestic abuse hotline. I don't have the number offhand, but I think Mistake does & she'll probably welcome the opportunity of your post to give it out again. [/quote]

1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

Unfortunately a piece of paper does not make you safe. I hope the national domestic abuse hotline can help, and maybe there is more help that can be found through any services that your son receives. Don't be afraid to speak up and ask. As far as a safety plan...if you don't have a cell phone then ask an advocate where you can get a free one, they don't have to have service to be able to dial 911. Ask as many people as you can to look out for you, establish a code word with relatives so that you can let them know if you are in danger and you need the police without having to tip anyone else off. Always be on alert when driving or parking somewhere, don't park in any spots that aren't easily seen or are isolated. Keep your car doors locked both while your in the vehicle and out, have keys ready in hand and cell phone too. If you can afford a security system then get one. Change your locks if you haven't already and lock them even during the day. Dogs make noise, if possible get one.
Don't be afraid to ask for help...and trust your instincts.