Ok, so here it goes. My wife and I have been together for 15 years, married for 10 of those years. To make a long story short, things were rough the last couple of months.Tensions flaring, anger on both sides. Kept encouraging that we all go to counseling, she always declined. At the end of July, she packs up herself, my son, and the dog and hightails it to another state and files a TPO and a divorce. I still have to go to the other state to fight this. That has been an ordeal in itself. I have had to retain 2 attorneys. I have chosen to appear entering a "special appearance" as to preserve my rights and have this action bought back to our state. If it can be proved that this was a tactic to gain a favorable decision in a different state jurisdiction, can that be held against her when she comes back to our state?