OK, so I went to court in my wifes new state yesterday and the judge dismissed the TPO (especially when the judge saw right through her trying to gain an upper hand, and really no evidence of abuse, which there was not in the first place) and then proceded to order my atty and her atty to get a stipulation that she is to drop her divorce action and that our home state maintains jurisdiction over all aspects of the divorce and child custody. I was able to see my son for about an hour before I had to leave after court, that was so cool!!!! He misses me and home and his friends. So, I flew home last night feeling much better that my son was going to be home soon. So I called him today to see how school was, and all the other things were going on in his life. He proceeds to tell me that mom told him that she does not have to come back here for the divorce. So my question is, now that she no action pending in her state, and she has this action pending in our state, doesn't she have to return with my son by our sept 24th court date? Or, at least, be required by my state to appear? Also, would I be allowed to submit the court transcript of the cases that were dismissed in her state as part of our case here?