I met my husband over 2 years ago while I was visiting NYC. We fell in love but I had to go back to my country, to finish college. He came to visit me, proposed and here we are. But here the facts:
-he has a kid and an ex wife whom he told me about 'looked better than me'
-even today I don't have access to our online bank statement, bills etc
-I do not have ONE single person to turn to here, he forbid me from buying a car or making friends
-bugged my latop-while I was in my country-and recording everything on it and transmitting it to his, in the US
-checking my emails, phone, yahoo, calling my office with a hidden number, screaming at me I am looking for guys downtown and so forth and so forth
-joked about having a detective to follow me while I was back home

The sad thing is that I am alone here and no person to turn to, isolated and my family thinks I am crazy for doing this. I will have some rough times ahead of me, as this marriage has turned me into an insecure person. Even more, I feel his jealousy and insanity are rubbing off on me.

Help!