My Thanksgiving was a disaster because my husband hates my children. I have 2 children by another relationship and have been married for 8 years. My husband married me knowing I had these children one is 22 and the other 17 the one child I have with him is 15. My problem is everytime my children are around as they do not live with me because of his abuse they live with their fathers, he is mean and nasty. We got into a big argument because I told him he shouldn't say mean things to me in front of the kids and he went off,called me a bunch of horrible names I so tired of the terrible words they hurt so bad. I recently went out to find an apartment and move because my self esteem is gone and I cannot take it anymore, someone please give me some guidance, I am lost and confused.