Wow, your ex sounds exactly like my husband. I applaud you for having the courage to take the hard route and put your sanity first. This is what you need to do for yourself and your baby, who is depending on you to be firing on all cylinders, not all teary and broken down. Congratulations on prioritizing for the long term, even though right now is HARD. I think you may inspire me to call the divorce lawyer I have picked out.

[Later the same day] Actually, you did.