[quote]With my original visitation agreement, the judge said that if it is ordered, (always bring that order with you in case...) that there are specific p/u and drop/off times then to be fair is to give the other parent 15 min. then he/she forfeits that particular visitation. Hold true, do not back down or you'll just be setting up for a lifetime of inconsistencies. And right now the kids need as much stability as possible.
Good luck with everything [/quote]

Thanks! My lawyer was clear that if he is more than 30 minutes late, barring traffic or an unforseen situation, he forfeits visitation. My ex on the other hand threatens kidnapping charges if I refuse to let the kids go. I asked him to stick to the divorce agreeemnt and that usually leads to a threat of death or taking the kids and running. Then on SUnday he has the kids call me and tell me they are almost home at like 11 AM. If I'm not available, he throws a fit and at 6 PM he refuses to bring them home and I have to pick them up at the police stsation. It's so sick!