My separation papers went out to my husband and the lawyer had put "verbal and mental abuse" as one of the things against him. I never said he was, is this standard in divorce/separation? I did notice it before I signed the papers, and almost asked to get it changed, but thought it was "standard" in these cases so I let it go. Hubby is very upset about this. Can I get it removed or something? I can't talk to my lawyer until nexst Friday. Thanks