[quote]I was granted a RO for a year against my ex. We have visitation pick up and drop off at the police station, per his request. The first pick up was fine, other than him being 20 minutes late. The officer said he could be closer than 50 yds to me as long as he (the officer) was there. This morning, at the station, he pulled up, got out and started putting the kids in my car with no officer. I told the kids to wait for the officer next time and my ex mumbled, but certainly loud enough for me to hear, "Oh give me a f***ing break." We live in MA. There was no officer present...is it a violation? [/quote]

Technically, he was. Where was the officer? Would I make a big deal about it? No. But I would make it clear that the next time, he needs to wait until the officer is present.

If he wanted a break, then he shouldn't have done what he did that got the RO in place.