I have a DV against me. It was tactical and used as a as a sword and not a sheild. I can"t beleive that a person could take advantage of the civil courts against another person. And how easy it was. I'll never be able to trust another woman as long as I live! Just Lie and thats all tou have to do. Maybe shed some fake tears and its done. I've been married for seventeen years and my wife was diagnsed menapausal last year now I have to be a walking ATM machine through no fault of my own. Men who try to be a good husband and father have only one right in this country. PAY!!!!!!