Girlyou are definitely not crazy. I know the drill. I was crazy. We have had similar situations. I was just naive enough to not only stay after the first incident where I needed medical care but I married this two of these types of men. Please go with your gut feeling your instinct your common sense and please leave now. It sounds like your parents are supportive. My mom sent me back , told me it was my fault and my dad encouraged my husband to put his foot down. I am now deeper emotionally and the second baby on the way. I feel very foolish and I now have a tremendous amount of healing to do, scared to death and very alone, lost a lot of friends and family support because I chose him. Wish i'd left when I was stronger , now it's one hour at a time. please cut it off now. you'll be ok, the baby will be okay, what we think we need sometimes is just ia so far from what's best for us and our children. Part of my problem was my committment to the marriage itself, my faith, my vows, but i'm waking up. do i care for him, yes. am i in love with him ,yes. but in loving him ,there's no room for me to love myself. once again get out now, no one deserves the disrespect, the abuse, the mistreatment and the children deserve good ,safe, nurturing parenting. I am also new to this site, just yesterday and it's been very helpful, welcome aboard to us both,