[quote]currently seperated, baby due in june, moving within 4-8 months, feel safer with him not knowing where it is, current order is no contact except for reasonable visitaion, he pops up at 7 in the morning, 12p, 3p 6p whenever sometimes calls first and demands to p/u 1yr old, while waiting for her to eat or get ready , violates my personal space either sexually or on the opposite end is verbally abusive, have allowed her to go w him alone once, once w/ 4yr old sister just for couple hours, he doesn't have his own place says he staying at sister's place, refuses to agree to regular visit day or time just says "on my next day off" , is now demanding he keep her overnight, has been in and out of jail so no real bond exists yet, doesn't change or feed her sometimes, i'm worried and if i file for child support it 's just going to make him mad. tired of him popping up, and him saying you're still my wife when he wants to come close , or even treating the house like he still lives there and don't feel comfortable with him in the street or around his alchohol and drug abusing friends and family. I'm worried about the babies at this age in his care ,what do i do? [/quote]

Do you have a domestic violence restraining order? If so, when he just pops up, call the police and have him arrested.

That is a violation of the restraining order. It isn't reasonable to just pop up whenever you feel like it.