Wifey,

I am a nurse too but in Canada. We have an employee assistance plan in effect to provide us with help for counselling, legal assistance etc. Would you have access to something like that??

And what is it with us nurses and our choice in mates? We are all fixers and we need to start fixing ourselves and let everyone else fix themselves and we would be so much happier. Keep following the good advice you get here because so far I have never been steered wrong. There is always someone who thinks of something you didn't.

Christine