I am six weeks past filing for divorce. All I can say is that every day you will get stronger. Remember to expect that you will be on a roller coaster ride with emotions.
My advice to you is please limit your contact with him as much as possible. He has been manipulating you for so long that you probably feel you can't make too many decisions without his input. You also probably feel as though your difficult decisions will anger him. But try to remember that no matter what you have been doing for a long time, he continues to get angry with you. It's not you. He will be angry, no matter what you do. He has been sucessful at his abuse for so long. The only way to escape his control is to break all contact. That means no emails, no text messages, no letters, no phone calls and no face to face contact. Let his attorney deal with yours. You can do this. I know it. You are stronger than you think.

Good luck!