Out of cotrol, you have a simple decision to make. I made it. And here's how I decided? I'm 42. Could I live with my husband for another 20 years? I answered this with complete honesty and realised that not only could I not do it, I figured I wouldn't live that long if I tried to do it anyway.

You are in a hellish situation. You have no choice but to LEAVE.

So here's what you do. Go to your nearest Women's Shelter and ask them to help you. Ask them how you leave a husband who is violent, abusive and threatening your life. Thy wil lhelp you make a plan and start again.

Leaving is the hardest thing you wil lever do in your life. But once you get htrough it, you will have peace and happiness. Go to your local women's shelter, involve the police when you are aready to leave and consult legal aid or a lawyer.

Good luck.