My girlfriend and I have been together for about 4yrs we have a very caring loving relationship. She was married to a very abusive alcoholic who physically sexually and verily abused for about 10yrs.He move to another state and filled for divorcé, he was arrested 1 time for domestic but blamed everyone else and says he did nothing, now the divorce and he has told her he will make sure she is broke and living in the streets with there 3 kids, he makes $85,000 grand a year does not pay anything, The problem is she still lets him call the shots do whatever he wants its like the legal system just says OK you’re the man do whatever you want she goes along with it. It puts a lot of pressure on our relationship I try to understand but I don’t think I can, Christmas came and he decided to pay a visit she said you can not stay at the house where do you think he stayed she let it go oh the kids, well on Christmas eve he got drunk grabbed her pushed her on the ground and dislocated her shoulder, She drove herself to the hospital and did nothing no cops no nothing. I don’t know what to do I love her but I do not think he will ever be shut down. It is very sad to see any woman in this spot. If anyone reading this is in a similar position please stand up for what is right for yourself and your kids and get out and fight for your rights.