I too had an alcholic husband. I left in December after being abused for years. It never became physical until this past July but that was enough.
I miss him because I love him. ( I don't miss the bad parts)
I left what I have worked for for the past 10 years. He bought me out.
Funny thing is when I met him he had his clothes and his truck.
I left a home, land, boat, camper......for a mere sum. I knew if I stayed there I would always be miserable so I sold out to him.
If I had to do it again I would probably have bought him out then sold it...............good luck