WolRon,

People get divorced for all sorts of reasons including abusive relationships like mine, but that doesn't make it any easier on either party. In my case i am the one who filed for the divorce, but I do love my husband and hate to see him in so much pain. However, I am not putting myself through a life full of torment just to appease him.

I don't know what your situation is, but I will tell you it took an awful lot for me to finally make this decision and it was one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life. Actually, it was the second hardest thing...burying our first born child was the hardest. Just know that whatever is going on in your wife's mind, she is struggling with this just as much as you are.