wow- this sounds like my story! my husband and i have been together for 28 years. and he is what you have described yours to be. a looser! my problem is that he fought for custody and won.
i live without my 3 daughters now. i am lonely and i am considering going back, again, for the sake of our children.
everyone would be happy, excpet me. i would be the sacrifice.
agan, and again.