HEY I FEEL FOR U I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 5YRS GRANTED IN THE PAST I HAVE HIT MY WIFE BUT ITS NOT WHAT MOST OF U WOULD THINK I DIDNT RAISE A HAND TO HER TILL SHE STARTED HITTING ME . I KNOW OH SHE IS A WOMEN WELL IF WE GET IN A FIGHT NOW EVEN A LITTLE ARGUMENT FIRST THING SHE DOES IS EITHER HIT ME OR THROW SOMETHING AT ME . I GUESS WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IS MY OWN GUIDENCE