Well she's doing it again. After several days of nice and kissy, she's back to being a [censored] on wheels again.

Case in point....we are in the process of refinancing our house. I am doing everything, which is OK but when I try to involve her in the process simply just to show her what's going on and where things stand with the loan, appraisal, payments and rate, etc.... she says she has no time to discuss it. Yet when I try to make a decision on something as mundane as where to buy gas or what to eat for lunch she hits the roof and it's back to the shrieker.

I do not know what to do anymore. I am breaking my ass to do what I can for the family, mainly to get out of the real estate hole we're in. She can't even understand how loans are structured and has no interest in knowing. Eventually she rags me on why I'm doing this without involving her.

Can anyone, without judging me, offer any advice, share any similar situations, etc????