Stoltz, your astuteness is only exceeded by your ability to understand the real world and I feel your pain. You sound like you have a handle on what you need to do and I hope things work out the way you want them to. You have that right!

Now am I getting tag teamed here? Is this entertaining? Am I amusing? (line from a movie)

I passed ROTFLMAO way back. But we digress and move on.

malone, jada and the rest of your tribe....are you stoopid?

I requested that if you can't offer anything constructive to add to this subject, please don't offer anything. It's a simple request really. My 8 year old daughter even knows when to speak up and show respect. Of course she is working on her black belt in Taekwondo and has been taught to do so.

Again, since you automatically side with my wife without even knowing her, that tells me you have no objectivity. Perhaps your blatant bitterness was as a result of bad marriages. I assume you have been married, or else why would you be here? Or is it possible that you are licensed therapists, and experienced to the degree that you can offer the equivalent of professional advice? Are you frigin Dr Laura or something?

Nah. I vote for the first thing.

Clearly you can't let it go when you are the only ones who cackle your way to the advice line. Frankly I am at a loss. I seldom encounter obnoxiousness to the degree that you've shown.

But the good news is that I will continue to post and respond to posts when appropriate or when requested to do so. By normal people. People who are having difficulties in their lives, however I will not judge them nor will I force myself on them. If you can't get anything, get that!