[quote] My 8 year old daughter even knows when to speak up and show respect. [/quote]

Show respect to WHO? You?

Like I said, your lack of self-awareness of what you reveal about yourself and your attitudes to the people around you, even your child, is staggering.

If you want some really truthful advice, if you can take it, you need to see an anger management counsellor. There. It's said.

And now I will put you on IGNORE. I suggest you put ME on your IGNORE list or you will continue to dislike the TRUTH's that I point out to you.