Incidentally, rethink what you said. Answerguy DIDN'T actually give you any advice at all. His advice hasn't been 'awesome' - on account he didn't actually offer you any with regard your situation or yourself. He just did his own analysing of this thread, but he didn't actually advise you how to go forward from your situation at all.

There is plenty of good advice on this thread, but none is acceptable to you. That's your perrogative. Like I said, my advice was well-intended.