[quote]For you Jada I didn't get to hit my husband for one. You obviously dont have reading comprehension either. I mentioned that I missed. What was i supposed to feel like walking in with my 2 children and pregnant finding my husband in bed with a tramp! I shouldnt have missed maybe it would have been worth being put in jail getting cuffed in front of my children and then getting treated like crap in jail pregnant or not they dont give you any special treatment. Hope you never go through what i went through. Easy to say and criticise unless you lived it! [/quote]

So, I didn't get the missed part. What you did was still wrong. And taught the kids that violence is the way to deal with a problem.

Lived it? I can say that I never even tried to hit my ex. He was the one who was physically abusive.

What was you supposed to feel like? Probably hurt and angry. What were you supposed to do? Leave and file for divorce would have been a more appropriate way of handling the situation that wouldn't have taught your kids violence.

BTW, your hands are still just as dirty as his are.