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i am wondering if you find tired of nagging to be accurate in his responses? do you find him to NOT be incredibly mean? and rude?
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Maybe - maybe not. Each individual has their own unique perspective of things, and their methods of delivery.

Personally, what I'd like to see on these boards is purposeful and meaningful dialog regarding divorce issues, but most of the time its basically crying and whining with "I'm so sorry" in response - but then this is divorce SUPPORT, so it is to be expected to a degree.

I've engaged with several people on these boards in which I had hoped would evolve into a greater discussion of the issues, but it seems just when the debate gets going the dialog ends. Even though I may appear stubborn, I too have learned from others here, which I hope has evolved my consciousness about things I hadn't thought of before. NONE of us is perfect - NONE - but understanding and communicating and most of all SHARING ideas on all issues related to divorce may help in facilitating a better environment for all of us.