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Personally, what I'd like to see on these boards is purposeful and meaningful dialog regarding divorce issues, but most of the time its basically crying and whining with "I'm so sorry" in response - but then this is divorce SUPPORT, so it is to be expected to a degree.
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wow.
youre right i TOTALLY do the 'im so sorry' thing.
but when i do, its because i AM so sorry!
otherwise i dont put that.

some whining and complaining is really to be expected.
but i think there are lots and lots of valid concerns, worries, and questions put out here
and
equally good responses.
i actually enjoy reading the various views on the topics.
when people have varying opinions and they are strong opinions it gives all the readers a chance to think things through from different angles. numberous times ive reconsidered my view once another aspect is brought up.

thanks for answering my question.
and
have a nice weekend.

(im about to go post a whiney thread on the dating forum...LOL....maybe i wont though.... ;) )