Some people find that the volatile way of life is really interesting and fun. I know you don't think that way now, when things have come to a head, but here's the problem, too many women who have gotten used to living with all the uproar will crave stability, find a stable relationship and
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then get bored with it FAST. The reason is that even though they crave stability and safety and protection, they don't know the whole package comes with less emotional ups & downs... less fun as well as less upset. <<<<<

okay...what, are you listening to my therapy sessions?
LOL!
seems i tend to date the same way!
oh, AND i date from the bottom feeders 'cuz that's all i think im worth. gotta love the fall out of an abusive marriage! sigh....

so that's part of my dating hiatus...
learning to much fighting and upheaval is bad.
and learing that nice guys are okay.
that amidst a thousand things about myself.

my therapist is truely earning her $$.
'cuz when this is over i Will NOT fall into another
bad relationship/marriage(ever on that one)
AND i will decide im a quality person. (well, maybe. i hope so...)

maybe i should take a class of some sort. sigh...