[quote] And now I move on to TiredOfNagging. Actually, I am not going to address my comments to him, but to every person here who has responded to him.

This poster seems to thrive on chaos and drama, more than thrive actually; he seems to feed off of it. Every time he posts, someone responds, and he keeps coming back. It is a vicious cycle and it needs to stop. Responding to his posts only feeds his ego.

Arguing with some people is like standing in front of an ocean and yelling at the waves to stop! It just does not work. Bow out, walk away, bite your tongue, whatever, but do not feed into his toxins.

This has been a long post and I am stepping off of my soapbox now!
Cheffie [quote/]

Well we seem to have yet another judge and jury who has no idea of who I am and what I represent, as well as what I bring to the table. Yet another person who doesn't have her own opinion but simply feeds off what others think. I guess in your own mind you're different, but to me (and a few others) you are the same sh*t different day. Even though I am able to prove otherwise, you and the others wouldn't even be capable of comprehension. Again because of perception. All of you seem to have me figured out. I am ROTFLMFAO at all of you self proclaimed psychobabblists. You all have no clue , just what the next person thinks.

FWIW, my wife and I have started counseling. Isn't that a shock? Most of you cackling hens (I like that) couldn't maintain a relationship if you had to. What man would want any of you who make it so clear how their ex's are so f*cked up while you were the perfect wives.

Give me a break. If you were all such perfect victims why are you all so lonely and bitter?

Lastly feel free to check out the thread by Bart regarding men's rights. Now that's an oxymoron to some of you. I notice how many of you have responded to this poor man who really got screwed over by his stbx. Try to focus on my response. I have also PMed back and forth with him and he is genuinely grateful for my heartfelt sorrow and support.